Unit 7 question 2

The saying " one cannot lead another where one has not gone him or herself" is just an awesome saying!! We actually discussed this in my church a few weeks ago. Even thought the message was "why does God allow bad things to happen" it almost goes hand in hand. For myself, had I not experienced obesity, poor self esteem, bad relationships, and many other nightmares in my life I would not have the strength, courage, compassion, passion, and empathy towards those who's paths I believe I come across in order to influence their life in some way. I choose to change my life, I choose to change the types of people I allowed myself to become involved with. SOme life experiences where so horrible I wouldn't wish them upon anyone. Yet I know several people who have gone though similar things. SO when I am talking to a client who may be obese, and have terrible self esteem and allow people to take advantage of her insecurities I can honestly say I know exactly how you feel and mean it. WIth these types of experiences I can help guide her though mental and emotional changes as well as physical. When undergoing extreme weight loss I remember experiencing so many mental and emotional struggles pilled on top of the physical. I would allow myself to be used and abused by people, I would hide from my parents and family to try and hide what was happening in my life. Finally a life and death situation came across my path and I am blessed to have the family I do and my parents where there without question. Having the support and encouragement in all areas made the world of difference in my success. I pray I can provide the same support to my clients who may not have a lot of encouragement and support. Having gone through similar challenges gives me the grace, wisdom, and apathy needed while training clients. THere are times when they need a more stern and hard push and other times I know they are in a delicate state of mind and need love and compassion. I use this daily and pray as I continue to grow and experience life that God teaches me life lesson and directs me on the path He has set out for me to follow. I choose to not be a victim in the bad circumstance in life, I choose to be the student and learn and grow both in wisdom and strength. With all the situations that come from life we can learn and help others who go through similar situations realize there is hope and light. I use my spirituality, life experience, and knowledge to bring hope and encouragement as much as possible. I am by far perfect, but I strive to be better every day. Jeremiah 29:11 " For I know the plans I have for you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Once I stopped trying to turn away from God's plans and try to live according to His plans I can help lead others through paths I have already traveled.